It’s all just so tough- it’s hard enough to get out of the obsession with weight loss and dieting as it is- but what do you do when you’re the only one in your family or friends group that doesn’t want to have the tired, boring, and exhausting conversations about weight loss and dieting anymore? You’re stuck… right? And you … Read More
3 Ways To Work Smarter in Your Business Today
I cancelled work for the first time ever to go have fun. Being a business owner is hard, being in the fitness industry is even harder- you’re working when everyone isn’t. This means when your friends and family are off- you’re usually working. I committed to the grind of entrepreneurship years ago- and hung my hat proudly on my “no … Read More
Pursuing Weight Loss Was Making Me Sick
I was never sicker than when I was pursuing weight loss. My body has taken many shapes over the years. It’s been bigger, smaller, leaner, stronger, bigger again, smaller again… But I was never sicker than when I was obsessed with whatever shape or size I was. I’d pull two-a-days, I worked through injury and pain, I starved myself, then … Read More
BIZ 005: Your Ideal Client Probably Doesn’t Care About Your Certifications
UGH, I KNOW. This one hurts me- but it left me confused and stuck for YEARS. Anywhere I could, I would put all of my education and certifications- it was the cornerstone of my entire business. It was on my business cards, all over my website, I talked about it non stop on social media- and guess what? No one … Read More
148: “You’re Not Fat – You’re Beautiful” and Other Unhelpful Advice
It usually goes like this: “I’m so fat.” “You are not fat.” “Yes I am.” “You are NOT fat! You’re beautiful!” I hate this conversation- because it’s all so well-intentioned – yet still unhelpful for so many reasons. I heard it for years- as I hated my body more and more with each passing year, and agonized to my mother … Read More
Awareness Is the First Step to Change But It Isn’t THE Change
“When am I going to start feeling like I’m living my life? Like… intentionally participating in my life instead of just feeling like I’m on the sidelines of my life going through the motions?” I asked my therapist that a few weeks ago. I knew the answer and I was fully aware of the problem… Awareness is *only* the first … Read More
What Can You Let Go Of Today That Will Lighten Your Load?
Growing up, I always used two full bath towels each time I showered- one for my hair and one for my body. My mom never once got annoyed or asked me to stop. It was no doubt unnecessary for me to do that and it of course caused more laundry, more mess, took up more space; the whole thing could … Read More
January – June: Taking Inventory On Your Life
It’s officially the second half of the year. If you’re anything like me, you’re big on taking your life’s inventory. Each week, I do an audit: how’d I do? How am I doing? What do I need to do more or less of? What progress am I making on my goals? Am I doing what I said I was going … Read More
Health At Every Size: What Does It Mean And Why You’re Probably Confused
First- it’s HEALTH at every size. Not “healthy” at every size. The problem is when stuff becomes main stream it gets butchered and ruined. HAES, if we’re keeping it simple, just means that everyone can implement and incorporate healthful behaviors into their life regardless of their size. It also reiterates that intentional weight loss pursuits are not the pinnacle of … Read More