You know that dreaded 5pm question: “What’s for dinner?” For years, I had a system for everything in my kitchen—dishes, groceries, meal prep, even clearing out the fridge. But once we had a baby, that beautiful system went out the window.
Now that we’re getting back into a rhythm, I needed a new solution. Something simple, repeatable, and flexible enough that I could hand it off to my husband if I was stuck in the baby’s room at bedtime.
Spoiler: we figured it out. And it’s been working so well that I had to share.
Step 1: Why a Dinner Rotation Works
The key is this: instead of reinventing the wheel every single week, we built a seasonal dinner rotation.
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Each season has about 20–25 meals we like.
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We split them into 4 weeks of 5 meals each.
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At the start of each week, we know exactly what’s on deck.
That means no more endless scrolling for recipes, no more panic-buying groceries, and no more mental load of constantly deciding what to eat.
The best part? When I was newly postpartum and had no hand in any of our meals or grocery shopping, we were spending hundreds of dollars more on groceries each week. This dinner rotation system saves us literally hundreds of dollars each month and cuts back on food waste- wins all around!
Step 2: How We Organize It
We keep everything in a shared note on the Notes app called The Life List. Here’s how it’s set up:
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Running grocery list at the very top.
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Used the last of the butter? Add it.
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Out of coffee creamer? Add it.
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All our essentials live here so the list is always ready.
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Weekly meal sections right below.
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Week 1, Week 2, Week 3, Week 4.
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If a month spills into a 5th week, we just loop back to Week 1.
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Inside each week’s section:
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A list of 5 meals.
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A grocery list for those meals (with asterisks for “check if we already have it”).
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Any recipes or links we actually need (for meals we cook on autopilot, no recipe required).
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Step 3: What It Looks Like in Practice
Here’s a peek at one of our weeks:
Week 1 Meals:
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Mongolian Beef Noodles + Frozen Veggies
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Cheesy Meatball Subs + Salad
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Pork Chops, Potatoes, Veggies
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Crunchy Tacos, Rice, Beans
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Mac & Cheese, Sausage, Broccoli
Week 1 Grocery List (Dinner-Specific):
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GF mac and cheese
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Broccoli*
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Sausage
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Rice*
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Caesar salad kit
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Canned beans*
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Lettuce, onion, tomato*
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Crunchy taco shells*
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Pork chops
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Potatoes*
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BBQ sauce*
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Sub bread (regular + GF)
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Shredded mozzarella*
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Ground beef or turkey x 2*
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Frozen veggies*
(asterisk = check pantry first)
Linked below that is the Mongolian Beef Noodles recipe, since it’s the only one we need a step-by-step for.
That’s it. The whole week is ready to go, and either one of us can pick it up and cook without extra planning.
Step 4: How You Can Do This Too
Here’s how to build your own dinner rotation:
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Brainstorm 20–25 meals you already make and love.
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Sort them into 4 groups of 5.
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Copy them into a shared note or doc.
Under each week, add the grocery items you’ll need. Use asterisks to mark pantry staples. -
Link or paste any recipes.
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Rotate and repeat.
When the season changes, swap in new meals and retire the ones you’re sick of.
Step 5: Keep It Sustainable
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Start small: If 25 meals feels overwhelming, start with 5 and repeat them each week until it’s easy.
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Tag-team: Hand off cooking by making sure recipes are linked.
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Keep it flexible: If you don’t feel like tacos on Tuesday, swap it with another meal from the week.
This isn’t about perfection—it’s about making dinner less of a daily decision and more of a plug-and-play system.
Our current dinner system takes the stress out of weeknights and keeps both of us on the same page. It’s simple, it’s flexible, and best of all—it makes the “what’s for dinner?” question a non-issue.
Want to try a week of your own? I wrote this post to get you started!