Imagine waking up to a life where chaos is no longer your default. The dishes are done, the meals are planned, your finances are under control, and you feel a deep sense of calm and clarity. Sounds dreamy, right? That’s the power of systems. When paired with intentional habits, systems can transform the way you live, work, and thrive. In this blog post, we’ll explore the difference between systems and habits, how they work together, and actionable steps to implement both in your life.
Systems vs Habits?
- Habits are the actions we take automatically without much thought. Think of them as the building blocks of your day-to-day life—small, repetitive behaviors that keep you moving forward.
- Systems are the overarching structures or processes that ensure things get done efficiently and consistently. A system might encompass multiple habits and workflows designed to achieve a specific outcome.
Here’s the key difference: Habits are the “what,” while systems are the “how.”
Real-Life Examples of Habits vs. Systems
Let’s explore this concept through examples from my own life.
The Kitchen System
- Habits: Unloading the dishwasher every morning and running it every night. Cleaning the kitchen as I cook dinner.
- System: My meal-planning process:
- Clear out the fridge and pantry.
- Save recipes to a “Meals” folder on my phone.
- Add items we run out of to a shared “Life List” Note in the Notes app.
- Plan meals for the week on Sunday or Monday and add ingredients to the Life List.
- Order groceries for pickup.
- Write weekly meals on our kitchen dry-erase board.
This system ensures our family eats well and minimizes decision fatigue during busy weekdays.
Financial Systems
- Habits: Logging into my accounts every Friday, categorizing transactions in QuickBooks, and using a budgeting app weekly.
- System:
- Automatic savings and investment contributions.
- Reconciling QuickBooks during the first week of each month.
This financial system keeps me on top of our budget and long-term goals with minimal stress.
Fitness Systems
- Habits: Daily movement, whether it’s walking or stretching.
- System: My workout framework:
- Begin with a “warm-up before the warm-up” to assess how my body feels.
- Focus on what needs attention (e.g., tight neck or hips).
- Progress to specific movement prep for my workout.
- Incorporate total body workouts 3-4 times per week, with exercises like Push, Pull, Hinge, Squat, Twist, and Carry.
- Add cardio, such as spin class or incline treadmill walking, twice weekly.
This system ensures my workouts are effective and aligned with my goals.
Content Creation System
- Habits: Capturing ideas in my Notes app and organizing them regularly.
- System:
- Funnel all ideas into a spreadsheet categorized by podcast or social media.
- Flesh out content ideas in a Word document or Canva.
- Schedule content on a whiteboard calendar monthly.
- Save Instagram drafts to post effortlessly.
With this system, content creation feels manageable and consistent.
Planner Ritual System
- Habits: Checking my planner each morning and evening.
- System:
- At the start of the month, review the upcoming weeks.
- Each Sunday, plan the week ahead.
- Conduct a quick daily review each evening.
This planner ritual keeps me organized and prepared for what’s ahead.
The Importance of Systems
While habits can sustain you in the short term, systems are what allow you to scale, grow, and maintain a sense of control in your life. They provide the framework for your habits to thrive.
For example:
- Without a system, your habit of running the dishwasher might get skipped during a busy day.
- With a system, you’ve scheduled time and created processes to ensure the habit always happens.
Systems reduce the mental load by eliminating decision-making, saving time, and creating consistency.
How to Build Your Own Systems
- Identify Key Areas of Your Life: Start with areas that feel chaotic or inconsistent.
- Break It Down: What habits already support this area? What gaps need to be filled?
- Create a Workflow: Write out the steps and tools needed to turn habits into a reliable system.
- Test and Adjust: Life evolves, and so should your systems. Keep tweaking until it feels effortless.
Key Takeaways
- Habits are individual actions; systems are the structure that supports and connects those actions.
- Systems help you manage your time, energy, and resources more effectively.
- Start small. Build one system at a time and refine as you go.
By creating systems that work for your unique lifestyle, you’ll find yourself achieving more with less stress. Think about the areas in your life that could benefit from a bit more structure, and start building your systems today.